tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post4146189159963126278..comments2023-08-17T03:49:17.269-04:00Comments on Adventures of a Young Feminist: Breast Implications #7: ConclusionsLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576742532111666583noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post-18019325023233052382009-08-06T10:54:08.867-04:002009-08-06T10:54:08.867-04:00There is a danger here of falling back into the pa...There is a danger here of falling back into the patriarchal model where a woman's primary goal is child-bearing and child-rearing. There are more and more women every day who decide not to have children. Women who do have children, only spend a short time breastfeeding. What will the "purpose" of our breasts be when we are not using them for breastfeeding? And yet again, what about women who can't or won't breastfeed? Do we promote the idea that they are somehow "broken" or not "real women"? These are the dangers of this approach.<br /><br />P.S. You have a very good blog. I'm looking forward to many more discussions in the future. :-)Clarissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11027134365260069910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post-39435129089767701042009-08-06T10:43:45.539-04:002009-08-06T10:43:45.539-04:00P.S.
And Clarissa, thanks for your great discussi...P.S.<br /><br />And Clarissa, thanks for your great discussion on this topic. It's awesome to hear others perspectives and it makes me think about where I stand on the issue even more.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16576742532111666583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post-69457590249387036972009-08-06T10:43:01.123-04:002009-08-06T10:43:01.123-04:00I think this also comes down to if women (and peop...I think this also comes down to if women (and people in general) have pure desires or just the desire to be desired. I don't have an answer to this question, it's something I think about a lot and something I've discussed in feminist theory class before. Can women concentrate on the pleasure they derive from their breasts (desire this pleasure) or will they only focus on the desire for their breasts to be desired. <br /><br />I think it is possible for women to focus on the pleasure that their breasts give them, but that is a very very big feat to accomplish in a society that sexualizes breasts to no end.<br /><br />I still think that seeing breasts as something other than pleasure-giving entities (whether for others or for themselves), women can have a more healthy relationship with their breasts. This can be through viewing them as "working" breasts. Or as creative entities (see my Breast Implications post on Boob Art).Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16576742532111666583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post-49794109184777752262009-08-06T10:35:11.279-04:002009-08-06T10:35:11.279-04:00"But in a society that values breasts for how..."But in a society that values breasts for how they look instead of what they do"<br /><br />-What they do for somebody else, though. Why not concentrate on what our breasts can do for us instead of talking so much about whether we want to serve either men or babies with them? Just concentrate on the pleasure, enjoyment, and fun they bring us. <br /><br />In a society that will value breasts solely as breastfeeding tools, women will still be "constantly comparing and thinking their breasts are not good enough." Only then the comarison will be based on whether you can breastfeed, for how long, how many babies you have breastfed (and given birth to). Yet again, women who can't perform these tasks very well, will feel marginalized.<br /><br />The only way to avoid this unhealthy attitude towards breasts is to concentrate on the pleasure women derive from them. Men can have a free use of all their body parts, without deciding whom to please with them. It's unfair that a woman can only see herself as torn between a man and a baby. And there is no place for her own desires.Clarissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11027134365260069910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post-81666099927897421232009-08-05T23:17:39.369-04:002009-08-05T23:17:39.369-04:00Not that we can't have a positive relationship...Not that we can't have a positive relationship without a societal purpose. The point was that in a society that values breasts more for the "working" purposes instead of their sexual purposes allows women to develop a healthy relationship. It's still possible to develop a healthy relationship in a society that highly values the sexual aspects of breasts. But in a society that values breasts for how they look instead of what they do, women are constantly comparing and thinking their breasts are not good enough.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16576742532111666583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4025502997259421463.post-85866231234584571792009-08-05T23:14:39.817-04:002009-08-05T23:14:39.817-04:00"Viewing breasts as working or lactating allo..."Viewing breasts as working or lactating allows women to develop a more positive relationship with their bodies and breasts."<br /><br />-This sounds like we can't have a positive relationship with our own body parts unless said body parts serve a societal purpose. I don't understand how seeing women as baby-producing and baby-feeding machines is any more positive as seeing us as pleasure-producing machines.Clarissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11027134365260069910noreply@blogger.com